Our Approach

Above all, we are flexible. One size does not necessarily fit all. We approach each couple’s relationship as to what they need to resolve their most pressing issues first. We design an approach for each couple that achieves results in the shortest amount of time and is the most cost effective. Our first goal is to return them to a stable place as quickly as possible.

Once stability is achieved, we can then discuss and work on issues that would have caused conflict and tension in the past. Couples learn ways of tackling issues that they may have been avoided in the past due to too much conflict. Then, many couples choose to move on to more relationship enhancing skills to increase satisfaction in their relationship further.

We strive to teach couples what they need to do both now and in the future to address issues as they arise, and resolve them before they become bigger.. We want you to learn not only what to do, but why these skills work. We don’t want you to need our help forever.

Some couples work long-term and some work short-term. Either way, we will expect that you’re willing to work hard to achieve the relationship you want. Our approach is fairly interactive. We do give feedback. We often give homework. We can’t do it for you, but we will certainly provide 'the flashlight' on your search for a better relationship.